Should You Consider Dating an Older Woman?

Older women are into me, but I’m not into them.”

I laugh every time I hear a guy say this. It’s a simple-minded comment. When a guy says this, it tells me they’re either way too picky or can’t think for themselves. Society tells us that guys should date women their own age or younger and women should date their own age or older. I’ve never fully understood this, but most of society buy into it. Take a look around – how many times do you see a 20-something guy holding hands with a 30-something female? Hardly ever.


Personally, I think you should have an open-mind when it comes to dating. Don’t automatically rule out a woman because of her age, ethnicity, skin color, financial status, etc. So many men filter out their search results online so much that there are hardly any women left. I know a guy that filters his search results by age (22-24), proximity to his home (within 20 miles), by skin color (Caucasian), and by religion (Christian). That’s ridiculous. Older women often have more going for them than a younger woman. And they’re often more suitable girlfriends for these reasons…

Dating an Older Woman

Dating an Older Woman

Less Competition

You will always have an insane amount of competition for women under age 30 online. That’s because, as stated above, men have it stuck in their minds that they must date a younger woman. There are more guys in the 21-35 age bracket on Internet dating sites, by far, than any other age group. The male to female ratio in this age group is heavily in favor of women. The over 35 crowd, it’s much different – it evens itself out. So since we’ve established the fact that men usually date younger women, this means you’ll have far less competition for women over 35. But that’s not the only reason to date older…

More Experienced in Bed

We have tried to limit the amount of discussion about sex on this site because we want our readers to focus on finding a long-term relationship and not a booty call. But the fact of the matter is sex is an important part of any healthy relationship. You want good sex and that’s what you deserve to get. There is absolutely no denying that older women are better in bed. If you’ve ever slept with a Cougar, you know what I’m talking about. They are more experienced and know how to give a man one hell of an orgasm. That’s not to say younger women suck in bed, but most of them can’t hold a candle to an older woman between the sheets.

Younger women suck in bed

Younger women suck in bed

Less Drama

Younger women almost always have some sort of drama going on in their lives. It’s either an ex-boyfriend that she’s trying to get back with or money issues that stress her out. Older women don’t have any time for drama. They’re fed up with all the drama and just want to live a life without it. Women with less drama are much easier to deal with and please. Older women lead simpler lifestyles. They go to work, come home, eat dinner, relax, and go to bed. Younger women are out partying, going from job to job, and dealing with crazy ex-boyfriends.

An ex-boyfriend

An ex-boyfriend