Showing a woman a good time on a first date is the main way to assure you’ll have a second date. Conversation and your actions are major factors into whether or not she’ll have fun. But the venues and activities you do on the date are just as important. Pick somewhere that you would both enjoy. Of course, this requires you actually get to know her a bit first online. Better yet, just go ahead and pick one or two of these 5 first date spots…
Dinner at a really freakin’ awesome restaurant
Do you love Applebee’s? If so, you’re lame. Applebee’s is lame. Come on, think of something better than that. Your city probably has some restaurant that’s not a lame chain restaurant where you guys can sit down, have an amazing dinner, and get to know each other. It all depends on the type of restaurants that are popular in your town. Sushi has always been my favorite first date spot. But not everyone likes Sushi, so make sure she does before taking her to a Sushi bar.
Intentionally tanking a game of mini-golf
Mini-golf is a fun activity. It’s a bit cheesy and not all that creative but it’s a way for you to prove to her that you don’t mind letting her win in a competitive event. I enjoy mini-golf. It’s one of the few games/sports I really don’t care if I lose, so I almost always let her win. If she pisses me off and I’m not into her, I’ll beat her by 15 strokes.
Cuddling and watching a movie in YOUR bed (or hers)
Don’t get me wrong, I do enjoy cuddling…as long as it leads to sex. How many times have you unsuccessfully scored with a woman you cuddled with? Are you catching on here? I take a girl back to my place to “cuddle and watch a movie” because I know it darn near always leads to sex. Don’t think most women put out on a first date? Think again. I never tell a woman of my intentions. I suggest we go back to my place simply to cuddle, relax, and watch a movie. They fall for it every time. And I get laid almost every time. WIN!
Exploring the outdoors like a REAL man
This is one of the best ideas for guys and gals that don’t drink. Show off your adventurous side by exploring the outdoors. Go mountain hiking (well, not if you live in Iowa or some other Midwestern state, obviously), white water rafting, hot air ballooning, or something equally epic. Prove to her that you’re not some boring bum that just likes to sit around watching TV and playing World of Warcraft.
Gambling away your life savings
Okay, maybe you shouldn’t gamble away your life savings. However, you should take her to a casino if gambling is something you both enjoy. Don’t be a lame-O and pay for her bets. You can keep things cheap by playing lower limit games. Just make sure you have a good time and don’t worry about winning and losing. If you’re a degenerate, this is NOT a good place to take a woman on a first date.