We all have different types of women we’re interested in because no two guys are the same. I like a woman with a good job, no kids, a nice body, and is down to earth. You might desire completely different qualities in a woman. I didn’t write this post convince you to date women I’m into. There are certain qualities EVERY man should look for in a woman he meets online. I wrote this post to inform you of those qualities…
She is who she says she is
The only thing I dislike about online dating is the amount of liars I come across. Men do this as well, so I’m not singling out the women here. Women lie about many different things online. They claim they are 100% drama-free and want a man that is too. Then you meet her and she lays out all of her baggage and leaves you wondering why the hell she told you she’s drama-free. Only date women that are honest online. If she claims to be something she isn’t and then you find this out after meeting her, ditch her. A woman that can’t be honest online is afraid of who she really is. She’s afraid no one will love her for who she is.
Doesn’t come with unnecessary baggage
If you’ve spent much time around women, you know many of them are just plain crazy. If she has an ex-boyfriend that she just won’t shut the heck up about, don’t even bother with her. Crazy women date crazy guys. They can’t be with someone that’s normal because they get off on being treated like dirt. If she’s constantly bashing her ex because of the way he treated her, she still has a thing for him and once that crazy ex comes back into play, she’ll cheat on you with him. It happens every time.
Is willing to respond, within a reasonable time period, to your text messages, emails, and IM’s
Don’t even bother with a woman that takes forever to respond to your messages. She’s probably seeing 5 other guys or just isn’t all that interested in you. Chances are she’s testing the waters to see if she can find someone she thinks is better than you. Don’t constantly send her messages asking her why she hasn’t responded. If she wanted to speak to you, she would have contacted you quicker. Women – busy or not – always find a way to get a hold of a man they’re interested in. The only other excuse for her not responding quickly is that she’s too dumb to know how to text/IM. That’s another reason not to date her.
You find her physically attractive
I’m not going to lie – looks matter to me and they should to you. That doesn’t mean I (or you) must date a Supermodel. But there needs to be great sexual chemistry for any relationship to last. Yes, you most certainly can become more attracted to a woman as you get to know her. And I’m not shallow by any means. But I need to be at least somewhat physically attracted to my girlfriend if it’s going to last. And I think you should too. Well, to your girlfriend…not mine!