Wouldn’t it be nice to get inside the mind of your date? Wouldn’t you just love to know exactly what she’s thinking about you? Does she find you attractive? Does she think you smell bad? Is she considering you as a long-term partner? Does she want you to go away and never speak to her again? Unfortunately, you can’t do that unless you have some sort of psychic powers. Of course, if you had psychic powers, you wouldn’t need dating advice.
Women decide right away if you’re NOT “the one”
Women will write off a guy faster than he can say “hello”. That’s what they do. If you don’t introduce yourself to a woman in a respectful manner or don’t show up dressed to impress, she will decide INSTANTLY that you’re not “the one”. Think you can change her mind? Think again. Women don’t change their mind about a guy very often unless she’s switching her opinion of you from good to bad.
There are always exceptions to the rule. In rare cases, yes, a woman will end up liking a guy that she had a bad first impression of. But you’re kidding yourself if you think that’s normal. In most cases, a woman has already decided if she’s going to give you a chance within the first few minutes of meeting you in person. And sometimes within the first few seconds. Your appearance (outfit, hair, hygiene, and sometimes natural boyish good looks if she’s shallow) are very important for first impressions. If she likes what she sees, you still have a lot of work to do to become her “Mr. Right”, which brings me to my next point…
There’s never a definite time when a woman will decide you’re “the one”
Women are very indecisive, which is why they like men that ARE decisive. One minute they really like a guy and the next minute he does something minor to piss her off and now she’s decided she doesn’t like him anymore. The female species sure is interesting! When you begin dating a woman, don’t get too excited early on so you don’t end up being let down. Women have a funny way of acting very interested in a man on a date and then changing their mind the next day. You’re just going to have to get used to this.
So when do women decide you’re “the one”? For some, it’s actually very early on in a relationship. These women are very insecure and are desperately wanting to get married. Avoid these women at all costs. For normal, mature women that don’t have serious mental issues, it’s going to take them a while before deciding you’re her Mr. Right. It doesn’t happen overnight. One day, it will just hit her that you really make her feel special and you’re perfect for her. This usually happens after a few months of dating and having a nice loving relationship. Be patient with her. Continually give her reasons to want to be with you forever. Don’t expect her to commit to a long-term relationship right away. Just be a great guy, treat her right, and show her you’re a real, loyal man.