Match.com is one of the oldest and best run sites in this game. It’s the largest in terms of its brand and in terms of its membership. Match.com is the catch all of dating, its membership varies very greatly and an understanding of how to decipher profiles can really spice up your dating life. The thing we love the MOST about Match.com and applying the methods outlined in our guide is how EFFICIENT it makes any result you want to get. You want a great relationship potential, its there, you want some casual FUN, its tehre.. its ALL there and its EASY.
Match.com: Review Of Our Results
Match is the site of choice for a lot of women. Match is usually the ENTRY point to women who are NEW to online dating. Most women that are on OTHER sites have already tried match. Their inexperience in this is a source of a GREAT advantage for men seeking some easy targets. Women on Match.com tend to be enthusiastic and eager to meet and date and ….
TEST SUMMARY –
Being the data geeks we are, we have done a full extensive study and aggregated our results for your conveninece. We ran trials in 5 cities in the 5 major areas of the US, East, central, south, west and northwest.
These reprsent a varied demographic, preferences and methods. We sent 5 rounds of emails using our methods. Of the 4500 initial emails we sent out, women responded to 3440 of them (76.4%). That is a REALLY HIGH number compared to other leading dating sites!
We were hopeful to receive a 50% response rate on any of the dating sites. At 76.4%, we were more than ecstatic.
GENERAL CONCLUSIONS ABOUT THE WOMEN :
1. NORMAL girls – they were sweet , nice and CUTE.
2. Eager to meet and have fun.
3. Lots of easy targets.
Although we were happy to receive a response to so many of our emails, what really excited us was the number of women we were able to set-up dates with. 19 dates set-up in just 12 weeks. That is simply amazing. But here’s the thing – it wasn’t just a bunch of random luck. That’s not uncommon on Match.com
The Top Match.com First Emails That Worked
In the next section, we are going to talk about playing Mr. Nice Guy on Match.com to your advantage. The emails we sent out to women on Match.com showed women that we were friendly, had a sense of humor, and didn’t lack any confidence. These 2 emails were our most successful ones…
Email #1: “Match.com matched me with you. And for good reason. Let’s see here….hold on I’ve got to check your profile to find something we have in common….oh, I found something…you like baseball. I like baseball! Let’s see if I can’t find something else. Hmm….we both live in Boston AND enjoy fishing. Are we the perfect match or what!? What do you say we find out what more we have in common? How does an Instant Messenger date this evening sound to you? I’ll cry myself to sleep tonight if you don’t want to. You don’t wanna make me cry, do you? ”
Email #2: “I won’t beat around the bush. I thoroughly enjoyed reading your profile. You gave me a couple of laughs. A woman with a good sense of humor is a cool chick in my books! But what I really liked is you seem down to earth and very confident. And the fact that you are into guys that like Star Wars was just icing on the cake. Yep, I’m guilty as charged – I’m a Star Wars dork! So now I must use the force to convince you to chat with me via IM. How does tonight sound?”
Match.com Review: Getting The Edge On Match.com
You know how they say nice guys finish last? That’s the biggest load of crap ever. And don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Think the a-holes get attention on Match.com? THINK AGAIN! You read our results (19 dates set-up in 12 weeks). We did not get those results by being complete jerks.
We took the “nice guy” approach. We were very polite to women and positive in our profiles. We showed no signs of negativity and showed plenty of confidence, but not cockiness. That clearly worked out well for us. This is how you get an edge on Match.com. You have to play the nice but confident routine if you expect to attract women. The thing about the women on Match.com is they truly are looking to find Mr. Right. Mr. Right is not an arrogant jerk that treats women like dirt. Not for anyone. Be a nice guy but make sure you don’t come off as too shy or lack confidence. There’s a difference between nice and unconfident.
Match.com Pitfalls: What We Didn’t Like About Match.com
We’ve given Match.com plenty of praise. Now it’s time to nitpick and give them some constructive criticism. One thing that disappointed us with Match.com was they never responded to an inquiry we sent in regards to an issue we had with another member. There was a female that we chatted with that was very rude to us. Somehow, we angered her for no apparent reason and this led her to sending us a bunch of hateful emails. It was a very childish act. We sent customer service a message with those emails copied into them. We wanted this girl removed from the site. Unfortunately, we did not receive a response from customer support. Oh well, it’s not the end of the world.
Match.com Review: Conclusion
We only had one minor complaint with Match.com. Otherwise, it was a more than pleasant experience. Match.com a truly unique online dating site. We aren’t trying to make it seem like we work for Match.com. Clearly we don’t or we wouldn’t be recommending other dating sites. We just tell it like it is. Match.com did wonders for building our confidence. The women we chatted with were interesting, attractive, and intelligent.
If we were to build our own dating site, we would mirror Match.com. Unfortunately, we don’t have the funds to pull that off! So we’re sorry to tell you that we don’t have our own dating site for you to sign-up for. However, we are happy to say Match.com is better than anything we could create. Get signed up today. If you’ve been a Match.com member in the past and haven’t had any success, give it another try. This time, read through our online dating guide. Follow the advice in the guide. Most of it was written with Match.com specifically in mind. If you follow that advice, there’s NO way you won’t meet someone great on Match.com